A blog following my (occasionally mis)adventures in Korea ... simultaneously being a teacher ... and a student.
Monday, September 28, 2020
Ben's Korean Adventures ... Continue, number 2
Wednesday, July 8, 2020
Ben's Korean Adventures ... Continue.
AND! In case I didn't get around to seeing anyone who really wanted to see me again before I left the country, I'm sorry. :-( This Covid world in which we live has changed a lot for all of us, and in my case, it tied me down a lot more than I had expected/hoped. I wanted to see more people in person before going, but I do firmly believe in the quarantining that was happening at that time. I hope that you all are also being safe and staying healthy. For anyone not in one of those states, I deeply hope for your swift return to both health and safety.
Chungcheongnam-do, Cheonan-si, Seobuk-gu
Buldang 4-ro 39-49, (Buldang-dong 866), 303-ho
Benjamin Graves
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Friday, November 24, 2017
Ben's Korean Adventures: The Resurgence
Jumping back a little bit, I worked at the same English kindergarten from when I arrived here in 2011 until this past April (2017). My run there was full or joys and frustrations and delights and anxieties, which kept me on my toes for those 5.5 years of teaching, but by the end of my last teaching year, I knew that my time there had come to an end. I was really ready to move onto something new, but I wasn't convinced that I should leave Korea in order to take that next step, so I decided to refocus and enroll in Korean language classes at a university in Seoul.
Between finishing work at the end of April and the beginning of classes in September, I spent a long vacation back in the States. I was able to meet up with a lot of family and friends, and unfortunately I wasn't able to see everyone, but it was still a really good experience. It was a very tangible reminder of all the good things I'm missing out on by living abroad, and I'm grateful to everyone who spent time with me and just hung out during that stretch. I eagerly look forward to the next time I can just come back and hang out for a long period like that.
Korean language classes ... just this past Monday and Tuesday I took my final exams, and apparently I'm still an "A" student. In general, being back in the classroom — this time as a student instead of a teacher — was really good and also really frustrating at times. I don't think I was ever a very demanding student (of my teachers) when I was young ... although if any of my former teachers happen to be reading this and think differently, please tell me so that I can adjust my memories, but now, after having been a teacher for the past 6ish years, I think my expectations have greatly increased. I think that also comes with age, though, and an understanding that the money I spent connects to each and every minute I spent in that classroom.
All that being the case, it was great to study with teachers who presented the material in easily-accessible ways and provided ample opportunities to practice all of these things during our class time. At the same time, though, it was frustrating to see things happen during class that I wouldn't encourage in my own class room were I the teacher. Beyond the teachers, my fellow classmates also shaped my experience (for better and worse) more than I had expected. I ended up becoming rather good friends with one gal and one guy (the only other guy out of 16 students, by the way), and beyond them ... I think it was difficult to connect with others. I also got to know some students from other classes and other levels (I just completed level 3), so I found other people to connect with ... but it could have been swell to have a bigger group of friends in my own classroom. This, again, was affected by my former experiences ... as a foreigner who's been living in Korea for a while, as a language-teacher turned language learner, and as a person in his 30s (when a lot of other students were still in their 20s).
So at the end of the day, or at the end of the term in this case, I decided to stop my formal classroom education after just one 3-month term. I had intended to study through level 4, but it was all a bit more stressful than I had expected/wanted, so instead I'm gonna spend this next stretch (specifically the 3 months that I would have been studying level 4) still covering the same textbook material (with the help of some language exchange partners and my school friends and a lot of elbow grease) while also trying to work out my near future plan. I need to do some job searching and research into higher education and mental defragmentation to decide where I want to be come next year. As always, the possibilities are potentially limitless, so I'm faced with the difficult task of narrowing down those possibilities into a few that really line up with me.
That's pretty much it. I haven't played much ultimate frisbee for more than a year now — partially due to a lack of interest and partially due to a lack of opportunity. I would like to play more, but now that I have a little more flexibility in my schedule, the weather's turned cold, so it's not the most ideal time for outdoor sports. Ha. I still play some games. I still try to hang out with friends when I can. I still talk to strangers all the time. Ha. Even if we haven't exchanged direct contact in long time, just shoot me a reply (just a line or two is enough) to let me know how your life is going. I would love to hear from you, and it's nice to know what's going on on the other side of the world.
Lots of love,
Ben
Ah- And ... HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!
Sunday, July 26, 2015
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 27
Hello everyone!
Yep, I am still alive and mostly well ^^. It's been ages since I last wrote anything here (approaching 2 years, actually), although I've thought about doing this from time to time. So finally I'm sitting down and putting some fingertips to my keyboard. Guess what?! My 4-year anniversary just came and went this past week. By now I'm about 5 days into my 5th year. It seems like the past 4 years have flown by in the blink of an eye, but that's just how we perceive time, now isn't it? Even I were back in the States I imagine that I'd feel the same way, although that blink would have been filled more with you all and less with a bunch of Korean kids. Ha.
The past year and a half has been a pretty good stretch, although it's also had some of my lowest, most frustrating times as well. As some would say, it's through those lows, though, that we get to better appreciate the highs … or even just the regular times. And I think that my specific struggles helped me to put life and what I'd been doing in a better perspective, and they ultimately helped me to make some better choices. In both of those stretches I found myself really questioning why I'm doing what I'm doing and feeling like I wanted to just run away, but despite those impulses, I stuck it out, got some help from friends and family and here I still am. But I think that things are gonna change in the near future, although I can't say much about it yet. Hah.
I think that after having been here for 4 years now, some things are still the same, but other things have changed a bit. I think I feel increasingly confident talking with people in Korean, although I still have the trouble of not being able to express myself fully. The road to fluency is such a difficult one. As an English teacher here, I don't often (or at least often enough) appreciate how hard it is for the kids in my school to pick up a second language. Of course it's easier for them than it is for an adult like me because they're a bit more receptive to it and flexible, but still … wow. It's such an amazing process. Someday I hope to speak/understand Korean more fluently, but it will definitely take more time and effort than I've had to give until now.
A few (3, to be exact) months ago, I started using a new app on my phone. It was called TwoGrand, and the name recently switched to YouFood. The guys who made this app wanted to create something to help people be more aware of the way they treat their bodies — specifically with food and exercise in mind. Too many people try to rely on temporary diets or fads to control body weight/image, but maybe, just maybe, if we all thought more about the actual food/beverages we put into ourselves and the intentional exercise that we do each and every day, we might have a better read on how our bodies are working and why they are the way they are.
The app has a social networking aspect (and I have convinced a few friends to join it), but I primarily use it just for myself. For 3 months now, I've taken a picture/written about nearly everything that's entered my body (other than water … although there's a way to track the amount of water one drinks as well) and all the exercise-related activities that I've done. This app has been so great — not only because I feel more in control of how I think about/approach food [like just minutes ago … when I decided to not take a mint at the counter of the restaurant because a) I didn't need it, b) I didn't actually want it, and c) I didn't want to have to take a picture of it, although pre-app, I would have just eaten it without even giving it a second thought], but it has also given me more clues about how my body processes food (like the day I woke up with a really bad stomachache, and I was able to look at/pinpoint exactly what caused my distress). I highly recommend this app for anyone who's thinking about health stuff … or just wants to be a little more aware of her/his own habits.
Because of that app and wanting to be a little more active, I decided to start slack lining more intentionally this summer. A couple years ago, Josh sent me a slack line for my birthday, and I hadn't really used it too often until this year. Recently it's been really rainy (rainy season has begun), but before that, I was going to a little park near my school about 3 days a week to practice. This whole thing turned into a really cool experience because not only did I get to improve my own slack lining, but I also started to build relationships with some of the neighborhood kids really close to my home. There are about 2 dozen kids who cycle through that park during the week, and a bunch of them started to come back specifically during my times there so that they could walk the line with me. Ha. There is even one boy who's done it enough that he's gotten pretty good. He can now walk by himself without assistance. I was super impressed by his progress and dedication.
Alright. I think that's about it for now. This week is my summer vacation, so I'm pretty excited to have a week off and do some traveling around the country. So far I've planned to meet up with a few friends in a few different cities and even visit a big amusement park (for the first time!). I think it'll be a great time, but I just have to get to bed on time tonight because my first bus leaves at 7am tomorrow. ^^ I hope that this message finds you and yours healthy and happy, and as I said so many times before, please shoot me a reply when you have time to let me know about your lives. During this time away I've definitely missed a lot of things (birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, babies), but I appreciate all the effort others have put into keeping me informed and included as much as possible. I'd love to hear from you and/or even chat (on the phone or through a video chat).
Also, over here there's an app that's used by so many people. It's a communication/file sharing app called Kakao (Ka Cow) Talk. Over the years, it's expanded to include other apps that do slightly different things. One of them, Kakao Story, is like a Facebook wall on which one can post photos and videos and just make comments. I use this for a lot of things that I do here, and I've been trying to use it a little more regularly since last year (when I made the trip back to the States). If you want to see some things from my daily life (and the weekend trips/special things that I do), check it out here: https://story.kakao.com/benjaminrollie.
And if you're interested in that other app I mentioned (YouFood, formerly called TwoGrand), I still encourage you to check it out! Otherwise, you can also see my posts here: http://www.twogrand.com/food-journal/benjaminrgraves/2015-04-21. That was my first day using the app, and if you manually change the date in the address bar, you could see every single day from then until now. If you're curious to see just how much pizza I eat or see the woman that I dated for a couple months earlier this year, you can page through the posts to find those things and others ^^. haha.
Alright. Lots of love from Korea!
pfn,bg
ps- Happy Birthday Jacquline! My younger sister turned 21 today. Woo hoo~!
Friday, November 15, 2013
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 26
Hello everyone!
It seems like it's been only a short time since I last wrote to you all, but I think that a fair bit of time has actually elapsed. So let's commence with the updates! August came and went without much more to say about it. Then came September, with its frisbee games and fair weather. As usual, I missed being around Indiana for the fair time, but otherwise, things went pretty well over here. And next came October. Wonderful October!
As some of you probably saw, I did take a trip to Japan during the beginning October. I specifically went to Nagasaki to spend time with some students whom I had met during the Spring/early Summer Ultimate tournament in Fukuoka. After that tourney, we had simply kept in touch with the understanding that maybe I could make a trip to see them or they could make a trip over here. And then I found out about a long weekend at the beginning of October and decided to seize the opportunity and just go.
The friends I visited are University students there, and it was so much fun to live in the younger university style for a little bit. Oh, the days that I used to be a student! haha. We spent the time only in Nagasaki, which was a good experience. Prior to my trip, I knew that it this city gained more notoriety because of the U.S. during WWII, but otherwise I knew nothing about it, so it was interesting to discover more about the history of that place and the important role it played in Japanese relations with foreign countries. Also the city itself was gorgeous.
One night we went up on a nearby mountain to look out over the city, and it was just great. One of the guys claimed that spot to be one of the best night views in the world, and I would believe it after having been there. During the trip we visited a few museums, played some ultimate frisbee, ate so much good food and ... went to a zoo! The zoo was definitely one of the highlights for my trip because this was one of the first times that I walked away from the zoo having had a good time and having not spent most of my time just thinking about how depressing it would be for an animal there. Granted, I still had a few moments like that, but for the most part, it was totally different.
We got to interact with a bunch of animals that normally I wouldn't get to go anywhere near. I fed/touched a flamingo, a kangaroo, a capybara, a patagonian mara and a few other random animals. It was really neat. And the zoo itself was built on the side of a mountain, such that we there were a bunch of open-air pens and lots of naturally gorgeous sites for these animal homes. All in all, it was fantastic to see, and it restored a little of my faith in humans to care for wild animals in a more urban setting.
Since that trip to Nagasaki, I've only spent time in Gwangju or traveling around for frisbee. Just this past weekend we had the finals tournament for this season, and unfortunately my team was knocked out in our first game, but it was a very close game. We lost in the last point to a team that we could have beaten (although obviously we didn't). Losing early had its advantage, though, such that we were able to rest for the remainder of the day, and I, at least, spent the time enjoying the company of friends whom I've only gotten to see a few times this whole year. Additionally, I was able to begin the resting and healing process for my body. I'm glad and grateful for the physical shape that I've built up/maintained over this year's frisbee seasons and tournaments, but my body needs a break -- especially my knees and lower legs. It'll be good just to spend more time around home ... being lazy and catching up on some dramas and books.
Dramas! I almost forgot. I watched my first Korean drama within the past few months. Now, many of you probably know nothing about this thing (and frankly, I don't know much myself), but Korean dramas often get readily noticed by some ... because they're partially fantastic and partially ridiculous ... and rather entertaining in the process. I watched through one show called "The Master's Sun" about a woman who could see ghosts who eventually meets a guy who can, upon making physical contact, make the ghosts disappear. It was a fun watch, and it lasted for 16-18 episodes. So if you're in need of something amusing with a Korean flavor, check it out. I'm sure you'll be able to find a subbed version online somewhere.
And now, I think this brings me to my biggest news ... that was finalized only a couple days ago. I've decided to stay at my school for yet another year. So all of you who want to come see me here, you've been given more time in which to make the journey. I know that this'll be a bit annoying for some (since I've already been gone for about 2 and a half years), but right now, I think this is the best thing for me. And if you want to know more about it ... just ask ... or skype with me. As always, I'd love to hear more about how your life is going and what's new these days.
Alright. It's time to get back to work! Have a great day, and keep it real~
Lots of love,
bg
ps- as usual, you can find videos from my trips and frisbee at my youtube channel (http://www.youtube.com/user/bengraves321) or see some photos at my Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/benjaminrollie).
Monday, August 5, 2013
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 25
Hello everyone!
I hope that you are well and enjoying your summer. Mine is cruising along too quickly, yet it's still bringing me a fair bit of enjoyment. Before I get into the usual updates and ramblings, here's an exciting thing: today is my 10,000th day of life! Woo hoo! haha. I don't remember why I looked into it a while ago, but one day I sat down and tried to find when his day would come, and today's the day. 10,000 is a pretty big number, and it makes me stop and reflect a bit -- what have I done with my 10,000 that really makes them all worthwhile? I think that there are a few things I'd list out, but I'll save those details for another day and another message.
Since the beginning of June I have spent a weekend in Japan, run my first race, helped some high school boys hone their frisbee skills and even gone paragliding for the first time. It's been a pretty full and active last couple of months. My trip to Japan was, as you could guess/already know, motivated by frisbee. I went there with a group of Koreans and foreigners to play in an Ultimate tournament in Fukuoka. I didn't realize until we were about to leave that this tournament, unlike one I had participated in a little before then, wasn't actually an international tournament; on the contrary, it was a Japanese tournament to which we'd been given an invitation because of some good relations between a few players from each country. We brought two teams to join the other 12-16 Japanese teams playing.
This tournament lasted over two days with each day being a separate event. The first day we had a hat tournament, during which all the players were completely randomly assigned to randomized teams. This day ended up not being so great for me. For some reason, I played more poorly right at the beginning than I'd almost ever played before, so by out later games, I think that other teammates were (reasonably enough) much more hesitant to include me in plays. I dropped two discs in the end zone, and I completely missed another disc … that was flying right at me … and it then hit me right in the mouth. I essentially did things during the first two games that I'd never done before in games, and it was pretty disappointing. So these things coupled with some weird (to me) aspects of Japanese-style Ultimate caused that first day to not be quite as grands -- at least as far as frisbee was concerned.
That night I went out with one of the other players who speaks Japanese, and the two of us went around to some local food stalls/restaurants to eat some authentic Japanese food, and it was fantastic. The food and atmosphere were both great, and they make me excited for the next time I visit Japan … which will happen in October! Woo hoo again! On that first day I connected with one guy from my team more than with the other players, and I decided to go visit him in Nagasaki during one of my long weekends this fall. I hope/think it will be a sweet time. So then came the second day of frisbee, and on this day I played with the Korean team I had originally intended to play with. My memories fail me a bit, but I think that during those games, I played with a wholly new set of people with whom I'd never played before, which provided both its own pros and cons. I was able to do a few things that I wouldn't have done with my regular season team, yet at the same time we didn't click as well as that team had (by the end of our season). The second day was fun, even though I left Japan with no wins, 2 ties and a bunch of losses.
Around this trip (for most of June and all of July), I've been constantly saying goodbye to friends who have finished their time in Korea and are moving on to something new. Prior to this mass flight only a couple of other people (who left back before Spring) had played as large of a role in my Korean life as all these newly-departed/ing folks have. I don't have much more to say on this topic other than this: I don't really feel sad about these friends leaving, but I definitely feel pretty depressed by their absence. And this is ok. Over the past year, I built so much of my life around these people and my relationships with them that I have lost a lot, but even now -- without them around -- cool things can happen if I'm open and willing to embrace more newness.
A few weeks ago, I went to a race in Seoul -- Color Me Rad. For anyone not familiar with this specific race, it's the one during which people can throw a colored powder on racers, such that by the end, each person has captured a little bit of the rainbow on his/her clothes and body. The colored powder is dyed corn starch, so it's nontoxic, but it still doesn't taste so great. haha. I went to this event with two of my coworkers, and we all had a blast. This was the first time I've ever signed up for a race (because it's technically a 5K), but it ended up not being much of a race after we started. People tended to spend more time walking and chatting than running or jogging. The three of us tried to jog for most of it, although we also slowed down for the color stations and at other arbitrary times. All in all, it was a great experience, and I encourage others to seek out any Color race in their area.
This past week I had a vacation from work, so I went away two weekends ago to a small city on the other side of the country (it took 6.5 hours to bus there … and about 5.5 hours to bus back … whew) to hang out with newer friends and a group of school boys who have an interest in frisbee. An Ultimate player from this city, Youngwol, set up this week as a time for people to come and show her students what Ultimate can be like. She's been single-handedly working with these boys to develop their skills, and she's been doing a great job, but there's only so much a single can teach about a team sport … when the students have never really seen the game in full action. Thus a group of us came to help remedy that situation. And it was a blast. Because of the nature of my work, I hardly spend time around older teens -- kids who are developed enough to really grasp concepts and offer their own insights, so this weekend was especially good for me. By the end of weekend, I had connected pretty well with the students, such that by the time everyone else had to leave (because they needed to be home by Sunday night … and my bus home left Monday morning), I ended up going to dinner with just the students. My friend who's been working there is yet another whose contract will very soon finish, and although she hopes to find another teaching spot in the country, she doesn't yet know if she'll still be around. I'm hoping to maintain contact with these guys and either visit them or host them here, so that we can continue to build skills and work on the future of Ultimate in Korea.
And just this last weekend I was able to try another new thing -- paragliding! I went with 2 other foreign friends and 5 new Korean friends to a smaller city about an hour away. All in all, it was a pretty fun experience (you can find pictures on Facebook … and videos on youtube), but it was definitely one of those that had way more lead up time that "in action" time. We arrived at the mountain around 11 am on Saturday, and because of the weather, our last jumper didn't glide off the mountain until a bit after 5 pm. Whew. It was a long day. But it was really cool. We each fly down with an instructor/coach sitting right behind us, and I was expected much of a free falling feeling as we came down, but it ended up being amazingly smooth from the top down to the ground. I would definitely do it again, and I recommend anyone else to try it as well. Maybe it's a little scary to just jump off a mountain top … but it ended up being a sweet ride down.
Now, during last week (bookended by my two weekend trips), simply spent the week relaxing, reading books, playing games with friends, watching some TV shows, studying a little Korean and sleeping. It was pretty much exactly what I needed. I had been intending to go away for the middle/end of the week, but things changed so I didn't end up going … all for the better. I don't realize, really, until after I have a forced slowdown (like last week) how much I tend to just live on stress. I fill up my schedule to the brim (and a little more) and don't look back because I do like being busy … but it takes its toll after a while. I hadn't realized just how busy I'd been keeping myself until I had whole days with no solid plans ahead of me. It was amazing. I'm hoping that I can hold onto this impression and keep myself from getting too busy yet again. I need to slow down a bit more and remember to value and guard my downtime … even if I'm the sort who doesn't intrinsically want to give that time value.
During this past week, I did read 2 books; one was ok … but the other was great. Gary Schmidt, an English professor at Calvin, has written a number of great books, and I just finished Okay for Now (which is a companion book to The Wednesday Wars). Schmidt has a fantastic gift for being able to blend heartache and hope into a beautiful, compelling narrative, and that's certainly how that book was for me. If you've not read anything by Schmidt yet, I encourage you to find it on Amazon (or any other local store) and get it. I think that you'll not regret having done so.
Ok. Time to get back to school things. I wish you all well, and I hope that you're finding ample time to sit back, relax and enjoy the things that you love doing. As always, I would love to hear from you, so please hit me up with a message about your life and what's new there.
pfn,
bg
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 24
Hello again, my wonderful readers!
I hope that you have been well and that summer is setting in well in your lives. It definitely feels like summer over here, and I'm really loving the weather, although I keep thinking that I hope it doesn't get too hot too quickly.
Now, since I've never been too great at holding back exciting news, here goes: my frisbee team won the championship game this past Sunday! Woo hoo! And, to boot, I was the honor of being the male playoff MVP. Another Woo hoo! Of these two things, I had really hoped that the first would happen, and the second definitely caught me a little off guard, but it was a sweet moment nonetheless. My team all played really well, and it was definitely a privilege to play with such stellar people this year. The only bittersweet aspect is that soon many of these fine individuals will be departing Korea all too soon. This weekend marks the beginning of the end as there will be a big Going Away party for a couple of the folks already. Departures and separation will definitely be a continuing theme this summer.
Even though this frisbee season has technically come to a close, it doesn't mark the end of playing anytime soon. Already there are 3 or 4 game weekends lined up through the middle of July, including a weekend trip to Fukuoka, Japan the last weekend of June. As you can imagine, I am especially excited for this impending adventure. Granted, it will be a quick weekend packed with frisbee and bookended by too much time traveling, but otherwise it should be a grand time. And now's the time as well when the fall season's teams are being established. I'm still a bit on the fence as to whether or not I'll play again in the fall because this season's done a number on my body (specifically my legs and knees), and it does take up a lot of time when it's in gear. At the same time, though, hanging out with the frisbee folks and building those relationships has been a definite highlight of my life so far, and considering the progress i've already made in developing these friendships (and even my own frisbee skills), it would be a big waste to cut things off already. Oh, decisions. hah.
What else is there. In the past 2 months we've had a couple school field trips. We went to the local zoo, which was just as much fun and as depressing as it ever is. Seeing how the kids can approach and slightly interact with these amazing animals cements my belief that the idea of zoos is great. Seeing how the animals live, though, in their rough, small pens or cages equally cements my belief that treating any living thing like this is terrible. And then just last week we went to a local park/open field where the kids got to just run around and play outside for an hour or so. This kind of trip is great because it reminds me that these children do get some free time to enjoy life; we don't' have too many opportunities like this during the usual schooldays, so it felt fantastic to get out and just play.
Last month I did also get to go away for a day trip with a few coworkers to one of the southern coastal cities. We went there to see a temple on a small mountain and just get away for a bit. This also felt fantastic. Not necessarily because of frisbee alone (although most recently it's been a primary cause), but also because of the full schedule I keep, I haven't made as much time as I want to for traveling around this country. There are so many parts that I've not even come close to seeing. I'm certain I've said this before, but I'll say it again: I think Korea's a very beautiful country, and each time I get to go sightseeing, I'm reminded of how much I'd like to see even more. I'm hoping that come July, I'll be able to get out a little more for some of that sightseeing, since the weekends of this month have already been committed to other things by this time. I really hope to hike some big mountains before the end of summer/beginning of the rainy season, but we'll see how that goes.
Here's my final story, and then I'll close. A little while back I took a jacket to the dry cleaner's to have it cleaned because it had been far too long since the last time that happened (maybe never that's happened while I've owned it). The jacket came from Old Navy, I think, and it's a tan corduroy material. As I dropped it off on a Wednesday, the owner looked at the coat and said something to me in Korean about how the sleeves were a different color (a lighter shade of tan) than the rest of the jacket. I'd never really noticed this before, and so I responded saying that it was ok because I thought that maybe the owner guessed I might be concerned about the color difference when I got it back, and he didn't want any blame for making a mistake. This is one of those times when I wish I'd had the vocabulary to explain, "No, this is just the style of the jacket, and it's ok." On Saturday I returned to reclaim my clean jacket and low and behold, the jacket was wonderfully clean … and also wonderfully one color from one sleeve tip to the other. haha. Moral of the story: I still need to learn more Korean.
And now I have a final note for all of you: I was just thinking about this last night between writing the beginning of this message and finishing it off now. Since I've been here and for the duration of my stay in Korea, friends and family have gotten married or will get married, have graduated or will graduate, have birthed new lives or will bring new one into the world, and I'm missing all these things. Sorry I can't be around for these momentous events. I do daily wish that Korea were closer to home, but unfortunately that's just not the case. And since it isn't/will never be, I hope that you'll extend me a little extra grace and continue to keep me informed about your lives and how things develop and change. Even though I'm leagues away, I still wish to celebrate and commiserate with you in both your joys and struggles.
I love you a lot, and I wish you loads and loads of happiness.
pfn,
bg
ps- again I'll include the link to my Youtube page: (http://www.youtube.com/user/bengraves321). Since the last email, I've reorganized and added new things on that page, such that it has quite a few videos there. Please browse around and see a bit of my life -- at school, on the field and in other times around those. By the next time I write, hopefully I will have straightened out more photos, so that I can share links for those as well.
pps- and as always, here's the link to the blog that has this and all previous messages (http://bginkorea.blogspot.kr/).
Monday, April 1, 2013
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 23
I am still alive! I know that it's been about 7 months since my last
message, but sometimes that's just how it goes, I guess. These days
I'm keeping as active and engaged as always, and I'm mostly healthy,
so I have no real complaints. Since the last time you all heard from
me so much, yet so little has happened and changed. I'll give you a
few highlights and just the usual words here and there that I might
usually type out.
Perhaps the biggest and most exciting development (I'll start with
this one first) is this: I'm engaged! hahaha. Psyche. April Fool's
;). Nope, actually, I joined an Ultimate Frisbee team this year. For
those of you who've never heard of this sport you should probably take
some time to learn about it. Here's a very quick overview: two teams
face off on a field about the same size as used in soccer. Each team
consists of 7 players, and after an initial long throw from one team
to the other (like a kickoff), the receiving team (now on offense)
must make short and long passes with the frisbee until they reach
their end zone and score. If they ever drop the frisbee or if the
other team intercepts the disc at any time, there's an immediate
turnover, and that other team can try to score in the opposite end
zone. In this way, it's a very fast-paced, intense game.
I joined the team right before the beginning of the year, so I've been
practicing and playing and going to some small tournaments and/or
training clinics since the beginning of January, and it's been so
rewarding, yet so tiring to get back into a sport again. Now, I am
still so young, but somehow some parts of my body (my knees
specifically) don't seem to remember that. Haha. They have been
pretty achy and whiney for the past month or so, although most
recently, I've found some new ways to stretch them, thus they're
beginning to feel a bit better and fall into the groove of being
active again.
My team has played 5 games so far (the most recent 3 just this past
Sunday), and we're currently 3-2 in our wins and losses. I've heard
that we've hopefully gone through most of the hardest teams by now, so
I'm hopeful that we'll keep progressing and building steam. My team
consists of 10 guys and 5 gals who bring a lot to the table. Only a
few of us are brand new to the game, but we all have a ways to go
before we mesh perfectly. We can do it! Fighting! (a little Korean
plug for you there). This frisbee season will extend through the end
of May, so I've got a lot of games yet to play, and I'm looking
forward to traveling around a little bit more and building up some
more relationships with the cool people that I've met so far.
By this point now I'm also a little over a month into my new school
year. This year I have fewer students over all (I went from about 60
to about 45), and I think that my experience over the past year and a
half is really beginning to pay off -- especially with the
kindergarten students. As with any job, experience often builds
confidence and precipitates better results. This year I think I'm
starting with some weaker students than I had last year, but I'm
pretty confident that these kids will be able reach the same endpoint
and/or exceed my former students. It's going to take a lot of time
and effort to make this come true, but I'm really hopeful that I can
make it a reality. Again. Fighting!
Outside of school (during the week), I've been trying to spend some
more time with my Korean friends and coworkers. Having gotten
involved with the frisbee crew (even before I actually joined their
team), I began (last fall) to spend most (if not nearly all) of my
weekends with them, which when you're hanging out primarily with
native English speakers and playing games or sports or just enjoying
one another's company a lot, things like studying Korean and learning
more about Korean culture tend to fall by the wayside. At this point
I'm trying to be a little more intentional about both those things
because even though I'm still spending most of my weekends with these
cool people, almost all of them will be leaving Korea by June or July
of this year. Other than a few of my close coworkers, this has been
the first time that I found a large group of foreigners that I really
like. Not only do I like them, but I do feel pretty connected
with/close to them all. It's gonna be a bummer when they all depart,
but life will go on.
I need to hit the hay soon, so I'll close up with these last thoughts:
first, my birthday did come and go recently, and you know what, it was
great. I went out to dinner on the day of with a couple close
friends. We went to a restaurant where I ordered a burger and fries.
I realized after eating it (oh, especially the next morning) that it's
been probably 8-9 months since the last time I consumed that much
ground beef at one time, and my body was not prepared to process it
very quickly. That next morning I woke up still feeling as full as I
had right after first finishing it. Then on the weekend, I obviously
hung out with frisbee folks, and we played frisbee for a bit, had some
delicious Papa John's pizza (woo hoo) and then some of us went to a
노래방 (no-ray-bang) for karaoke. Guys. I want you all to come visit me
just so that we can relive/experience this kind of day. The karaoke
rooms are so much fun. Wow. haha. Seriously, anytime you get a
chance to come this way, do it!
Second, this past stretch has been a strong non-writing spell for me,
but hopefully this marks a change. I have a list of names posted
right in front of me who'll be receiving some specific replies
soonish. And I will try to hit you all up again sooner rather than
later.
Third, I haven't uploaded/posted too many pictures/videos from the
past few months, although there may be a few new ones around. Anyone
connected to me through facebook/google plus can see what I've put up
before. You can also go to my Youtube page at
(http://www.youtube.com/user/bengraves321) to see any videos that are
there.
Alright. Lots of love from Korea, and I'll catch you on the flip
side. As always, I would love to hear about how your life's going as
well!
pfn,
bg
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 22
Guess what? I'm currently experiencing my first typhoon! Typhoon Bolaven is accosting us with wind and rain at this very moment, and other than the water leaking in under my window sills, I'm no worse for the wear. We did end up getting an entire day off for this storm, so I truly can't complain. I'm very curious to see how this plays out over the day. If anything major happens, I'll let you know about it next time.
I've been back here for about 3 weeks so far and keeping as busy as ever. I'm quickly getting back into the swing of things at work. Over the past 3 weeks, because students were still on vacation from their schools, we offered some extra classes at Oedae. This meant that some of the foreign (and native) teachers came to Oedae earlier in the day to teach these groups of kids. These classes focused on conversation more than anything else, so with my group of 5 kids, we talked about their daily routines, what their rooms looked, their favorite places and other common topics. I did have a couple frustrating kids that caused more stress than they should have, but otherwise it was an interesting change of pace.
Additionally, because of that extra class, my schedule at Haba has been different for the past 3 weeks as well. This week I will begin teaching my 4-year-olds again (another teacher has been covering for me), which will be fun. I've stopped by their room from time to time, and they're just as cute and excitable as ever. Now in this second half of the year, I'll be switching gears a bit; for the past months I have been trying to just have fun with the kids and increase their vocabulary. From this point onward, however, I want to set them up for being the best 5-year-olds they can be. I currently have my 5-year-old class that's doing really well, which primarily comes from the students' own abilities (and some of my teaching style). If I can help these younger kids end up like my current 5-year-olds were at the beginning of the year, I will consider it a job well done. And expect thanks from the next teacher to have them. haha.
In the 5-year-old classroom I'm going through the same kind of shift -- moving closer to a "prepare for the next year" mindset. I'm hoping, truly hoping, that these kids will be able to read and write simply sentences by the end of the year. Typically that's what we focus on with 6-year-olds, but this group of kids is great, and I think they can do it. Since I've been back, we've worked on some phonics things together that usually go over well. For example, one day we simply went through the alphabet and listed an animal whose name begins with the letter in question. I began by asking "What's the first letter of the alphabet?" They responded with "A." "What sound does 'A' make?" "Ah, ah …" "Good. Now what animal begins with 'ah, ah'?" "Alligator." Then we all made large mouthes with our arms and pretended to eat things. And we proceeded this way through nearly all of the alphabet (we ran out of time, so W, X, Y and Z didn't get the same attention). Beyond this exercise, we've started reading the same storybook a few times a week, The Hole in the Tub, by Joy Cowley. This story features our ever-vigilant heroine Mrs. Wishy-Washy and the nefarious Cow, Duck and Pig who constantly get muddy and need a good scrubbing (or wishy-washying, if you know the stories). We're going through this book very slowly and carefully, call and repeat style one or two word(s) at a time. After we read the story, I then ask them either how to spell a word (like Cow) or after writing the word on the board, which word it is. In either case, we hit hard the phonics, and as far as I can tell, the kids are picking it up. Granted, I have a few students (approximately 3 or 4 of my 12) who do much better than others, but across the board they have been steadily improving.
Now when it comes to my 7-year-olds and Oedae students, we just keep going with what we're doing. We study basic grammar concepts, add more vocabulary as it comes up and try to tie in various everyday topics with anything we learn. Here's one thing that's been on my mind recently (and it came up again just last night with my older kids): I think that any sense I've had of how quickly students develop and learn things has been entirely skewed since coming here and working with all these kids. For example, last night in my 14-year-old class (and I'll remind you that these kids are 12 and 13 in American age), we had the topic of "Internet Anonymity" in our debate book. At first, all the students believed that the it's good for their to be no anonymity online, which is an opinion that I don't know if I can easily or readily support. The first rationale given by one girl focused on famous people who've committed suicide (or gone into depression or something of the like) because of online attacks from anonymous sources. I asked if having names attached to comments would really decrease the stress that comes from these kinds of comments, and they said no, but hopefully if people had to own up to their words, they would be more careful about what they're writing. Point well taken. I wanted the students, though, to think about censorship and freedom to speak (criticize) in regards to politics. Sometimes, if an oppressive government exists, the fear of negative repercussions stifles open disapproval and change. Explaining this concept, or rather, leading the students to this idea proved to be an insurmountable challenge in our 1 hour together last night. And part of the problem came from this: the students explained that some of these concepts they didn't know in Korean, so they simply couldn't express them in English (this came in response to some specific questions that I asked). This gave me pause and reminded me that I am working with young kids, and I really don't know what they ought to know by this point in time … let alone even what they currently do know. So as a request to any of my teacher friends back home, I would love to see any academic benchmark information that you have for American students -- what they should be able to do and at which grades/ages. I tried searching online, but I apparently didn't use the right keywords because nothing productive came up.
Not only have the past 3 weeks been full of work, but I've had a lot of cool playtime as well. My first weekend back, I spent my first weekend (overnight, really) in Seoul. One of my coworkers had a sister in town, so 4 of us went up to see some sights. We ended up seeing one palace (Chang Gyeong Gung Palace) that had been destroyed and restored a couple (few?) times between its original build and now. Because I'm not a sightseer nor have I gone to any places like this before, it was very interesting to see the convergence of old and new: it was most striking when we walked along one long sidewalk (outside the palace) where to our right was the restored outer wall and to our left was a multi-lane road. Inside the palace, nothing specifically took my breath away (that's probably why I don't sightsee very often), but the idea that I was standing in a now-vacant seat of power still felt weighty. In addition to that palace, we did walk inside another one, but I don't remember the name (I think it was actually Namdaemoon, which is a large, old gate in the city). Again, it offered about the same kind of feelings to me. Beyond those places, we visited a couple markets (Insadong and Namdaemoon Market). The latter felt a little bit like a Korean Gatlinburg with all the shops on each side, but you could definitely find lots of different things here. Lots of traditional, random things. I think the coolest thing was something I saw in both places (and check out the youtube link at the bottom of this message to see it for yourself). There's one traditional Korean dessert/snack that's made of 16,000 strands of honey wrapped around nuts. It's pretty delicious. And pretty amazing. I took a video of the second stand that we came across, and the vendors explained what was happening in both English and Korean. Here's the funny part: this show was oh, so similar to the first one I saw. It's as if all those guys had been trained in their stage performance by the same person.
My second weekend back, I got to go rafting for the first time here. One of my friends recently invited/introduced me to a group that does various volunteering/service projects in the area. This group also has a big outreach to foreigners in the area, offering them classes (Korean, Taekwondo, K-Pop dancing, etc) and doing some weekend excursions. This particular Saturday we took a bus about an hour and a half away and spent a few hours on the water. Now, because of the rain that we've had recently and because no one had helmets we didn't get the "white water rafting" experience that some had hoped for, but it was really enjoyable nonetheless. I have to say that my raft was pretty much the best. We lazily (at times) and speedily (at others) went down a stretch of the river and splashed water at other rafts and swam and generally had a relaxed time. After that, we went to a nearby observatory to look at the sun and watch a couple videos about the moon. Again, it was great. While at the observatory we played a game of elimination in which each person received a paper wristband in one of a few different colors, and our objective was simply to tear off the bands from opposing colors. I valiantly slayed many an opponent, but at the end, just as a was going back on the bus, one insidious woman (whose band I had taken earlier, haha), barred the doorway and just managed to snag mine. This group was fun and playful, and I look forward to doing more with them as I can/have time. Also, you'll see another video link at the bottom for "Karaoke on the Bus." Karaoke is a readily-available pastime here, and as you'll see, it even can be done on a bus. haha. Now, upon watching the video after taking, I realized that the singing is pretty terrible, but meh, that's the way it goes. haha.
Just this past weekend, a couple fun things happened. First, we again had our large Spelling Bee for Oedae's elementary students on Friday. At this event, we split up by grade levels and administered a spelling test for all the students. With teaching lots of lower-level students, I didn't have many in the running from the get-go, but even my strong students were knocked out before the final rounds. The spelling bee part of the afternoon felt very long and boring (even to me … let alone all those kids who were knocked out early and spent the better portion of the ensuing hour being hushed and shushed until the rest were finished), but afterward we spent a little time playing a game and eating snacks. Below I've included links for some other videos -- not of the students, but of my fellow staff members. At first the kids had done this game, but just before completely finishing, Don decided to throw a curve and have the teachers try it. It was a lot of fun. Then, on Saturday, I ended up spending the better part of the day with a few other teachers going to a Jjim-jil-bang (찜질방). This is a my second time going to such an establishment, and I don't think I described it last time. You can do a wikipedia search for more information, but it's basically a place people go to relax that includes a large, gender-segregated public bath, rooms of varying temperatures and textures, massage areas and a bunch of other relaxing things. In the public bath area, you'll find locker room showers (for everyone to clean before and after entering the pools) and many pools of water with different temperatures. In this specific place, there was a large pool of comfortable water with lots of jets. There was also a smaller pool of frigid water with a couple jets, and then the middle of the room had 3 more large hot tubs (essentially). Going there for the day was fantastic. The one I had visited before wasn't quite as nice, but it still left me feeling refreshed and exhausted at the same time. If ever you come to visit me … or just make a trip to Korea … you should definitely try one of these, even (especially) if it pushes you a bit out of your comfort zone. This was a little funny: most neighborhoods have their own Jjim-jil-bang (or more than one, for that matter), but we went to one a little ways away to avoid running into students (because these are places where families and people of all ages go), and low and behold, Matt still ended up seeing one of his kids at this place. The little 5-year-old was with his dad, and he came over to say hi to Matt teacher a few different times. haha. After that, we wrapped up the night with some Pho Bay and Matt and I played a game. All in all, it was a well-spent Saturday.
Alright. I think that's about it for now. This typhoon is still in full swing here, and I assume it'll be this way for a while yet. As always, I'd love to hear about things on your side of the world, so hit me up with a reply whenever you're able.
Lots of love to you all,
pfn,
bg
Korean Traditional Honey/Nut Dessert:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kbxyIscP8k4&feature=youtu.be
Sunday, August 5, 2012
Ben's Korean Adventures- Edition 21
Hello everyone!
I am currently sitting in the plane, getting ready to take off from Grand Rapids and make my way back to Korea. Woo hoo!
Over the past two weeks I've gotten to visit with so many friends and family members; it's been great. I will admit, I am pretty excited to head back to Korea, but right now that's primarily because I'm truly ready to sleep in my own bed again. haha.
I am hoping that this time around things will progress a little better than they have the last few times I flew, and maybe that will be the case. Already I was upgraded to first class for my initial flight, although I did have to drop some weight at the baggage check.
Ok. Checking in again while in the air heading toward San Francisco. So that last flight ended up leaving about 35 minutes late because somehow it hadn't been refueled before we needed to go. And then the refueling truck ran out of fuel. haha. That's the way it goes. I made my flight with just enough time to stop and grab some breakfast before boarding. While sitting on this plane I watched some guys loading up luggage, and I actually saw them put one of my suitcases in the hold, but I didn't catch the other one. Here's hoping that it was just loaded before I started watching, although considering my track record (0 for 2 in the " luggage arriving on time at final destination" category) I'm already anticipating it to not be there on time. I would very gladly be wrong about this expectation though.
Let's see ... how about a little catch up? Just before leaving the country to come visit, my main class of 7 year olds finished their big English performance. Everything went really well with the show. The kids had a song/play/dance called "The Ox and the Frog" as well as a full play called "The Farting Contest". Both of these are funny little productions, and they went off without difficulty. Only two little glitches happened. As the first student gave his personal introduction and started to say, "When I grow up I want to be a ...", he froze. He simply stood there and looked a little unsure about what came next. Probably only 30 seconds or so passed before he picked up his lines again and finished off the sentence he had missed, but it seemed to last forever in that moment. You should know, whenever the kids step up to say some lines, our homeroom teacher will usually mouth the lines to help the students along. When I later asked Ji Hye about this student, she confessed that as he had said his lines, she had actually mouthed the wrong word to him, so he had had a moment of complete doubt and uncertainty; should he say "scientist" as he had practiced for the past weeks, or should he say "champion" as his teacher had mouthed. Haha. So instead of either he had just frozen.
During the whole performance series I controlled the CD player, so it was naturally my responsibility to make sure that everything was cued at the right time. I have had a paper copy of the script from the very beginning of our practices that lists all the track numbers and when they come up in the play. Now, as you can imagine, after going through these plays as many times as we have, I had pretty much memorized the order and timing of all the tracks, yet on that night, I had still kept the paper by my side just to make sure that all would go smoothly. We had used a CD earlier in the day that skipped or did some other unacceptable thing in the dress rehearsal, so come the real deal, we had even opted for a different CD that we thought had been burned pretty recently. During the performance the kids finished the first parts and cleared the stage to change costumes and prepare for the main play. I was supposed to start track 16 once I saw all the kids on the edge of the stage. The kids stood there, poised for action, so I pushed play. The kids didn't move onto the stage. They merely stood there and gave me the "deer in the headlights look." I could practically here some of them saying, "Ben teacher, what in the world are you doing?!" So I immediately paused the track thinking that maybe they weren't actually ready. I looked to the teacher helping them get ready for reassurance, and she motioned for them to start, so I clicked play once more. This time, Ji Hye peeked around the front row of parents to stare me down and once again give the "What's going on?" look. I then double checked the CD player and my paper script, and sure enough, both said "16." So I just raised my hands in the classic "Well I don't know" pose, and the kids came onto the stage. That's when I realized this important fact: my new CD, chosen to ensure that things went without difficulty, actually just didn't have the track that was supposed to be there. Haha. Go figure. The kids and Ji Hye had both known this immediately, but I hadn't realized until after it played a bit longer because I didn't recognize the song it actually was playing (the track formerly known as "17"). As it turns out, that CD had been made a long while ago because in some classes the teachers don't use that one song. Haha. Joke's on me. I think that's one of the few times that I've turned all shades of pink and red around the parents and kids since being here ... even if the embarrassment stemmed from something seemingly beyond my control. Lesson learned: always preview everything before the big day.
Checking in again. I'm now on my flight over the Pacific. Oh, yeah. So this is my first long flight in which there are not tv screens for each of the seats. This does throw a baby wrench in the gears, but I'll just have to make the best of it for the next 11 hours. (a bit later) Yet again, I have no fortune when it comes to sleeping on the plane (boo). As has been the case before, I feel the fatigue, but I don't feel sleepy at all ... even if I block out light and sound to the best of my abilities and try to lay back for a while. I'm so jealous of all those who can accomplish this amazing feat (ie- both of the guys sitting next to me. haha).
I'm in Korea! A couple hours ago by now I arrived in the Incheon Airport and placed my feet again on Korean soil. I went through Immigration, retrieved all my luggage and passed by Customs with no difficulty, and I am presently waiting to catch my bus back to Gwangju, which leaves within the hour. And I just ate my first Korean food since being back (mmm … delicious). I am still so excited to get home and go to sleep tonight. Whew. It will be great. I think that I'll wrap up this message now. We'll see how my readjustment and catching up on sleep go this week (because starting tomorrow I jump right back into the busy schedule that I left 2 weeks ago … plus there's a little extra through the end of this month), but I'm hoping to go through pictures and videos from the past month and get some things posted. This upcoming weekend I'll be traveling around a bit with some friends here, so I have a feeling that there won't be another big update for a week or so, but that's ok, right? Right. haha.
I am so glad that I got to catch up with a bunch of you during my time back in the States, and if we didn't connect this time, next time I will be around for longer … so we'll see one another face-to-face then. And as always, there's always Skype. I can usually make plenty of time for video chats or even just phone calls.
Lots of love,
bg
Monday, June 4, 2012
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 20
Today I am writing you with 25% less wisdom than I've ever written
before; yes, as you can guess, I did have my first wisdom tooth
extracted just about 48 hours ago, but I'll save that story for a
little bit later.
So much, yet so little has happened since the end of February when I
last sent a message like this. In general, my life's pattern has been
one of work, study, sleep; work, study, sleep; work, study, play,
sleep; work, study, sleep and so on (with that play time coming mostly
on the weekends). I feel pretty pleased with my present habits,
although it can be a bit exhausting at times, and it doesn't leave me
much wiggle room, but that's ok. And in some ways, this flow feels a
bit like college life again; I teach just as many hours as I would
have been in class learning, and I study now probably just as much as
I did back then (because I never really was such a good studier ;).
Now, I'll kick off this message just by giving a quick overview of the
last few months:
looking back over that time, here's what I've got: I've gone to a
beach twice now (it's still not warm enough to really enjoy the water,
but I did at least get in the water for a few minutes the second time
around); I've visited some green tea fields and I've gone camping;
I've made my first solo trip back up to Seoul (although it was only
for an appointment, and it was only a single day, so I ended up
spending a solid 9-10 hours of that day just riding public transit);
I've met a bunch of new people (many of whom are really cool and worth
spending more time with); I've struggled with and overcome yet another
cold/strange sickness; and I've continued to feel increasingly
confident with my abilities as a teacher for my students. That's
pretty much it in a nutshell.
The camping trip I took happened just last weekend, and it was really
sweet. I went in a group of 8 people (myself included), and I really
only partially knew 2 of the other people, so it was a bit of an
adventure on multiple levels. We went south to an island off the
Korean peninsula, and this was my first time taking a really long
ferry ride (which lasted about 2.5-3 hours). We stayed on Doe-Cho-Doe
island, setting up camp close to the shoreline. We had a pretty
secluded spot, which was so nice for some relaxing and resting.
Granted, I came back more physically exhausted than I wanted (simply
from having to sleep on the ground and doing all the things that I
normally would do on a given day), but it was such a satisfying
fatigue. If you're looking for a new place to camp with a great view,
just come on over to my turf, and I'll hook you up with a sweet spot.
haha.
My health has been such a troublesome thing since January or so. Off
and on I've been getting sick (mostly with chest or nasal stuff) for
the past 4-5 months. This time around, I did to go a doctor again and
received a shot and prescription for some medication. For the last
2ish weeks now, I've been feeling much better (with no apparent
ailments), but the frequency and speed with which the past ones have
come on, makes me a little wary. I think that this has been one of
the more interesting, albeit bothersome parts of living here because
back in the States, I never had this kind of trouble. Among some
friends here, I've acquired the reputation of simply always being
sick, and for the most part, that's been true. I'm hoping that this
is the last of my sicknesses, though.
As I mentioned earlier, I did go and have a wisdom tooth pulled out
just 2 days ago. This is the first time I've had such a procedure
done, so anything I "knew" about extractions prior had come from
friends' experiences, hearsay anecdotes or media portrayals. As it
turns out, a blend of all those things proved to be true for me. The
whole experience was a little strange and quick; for the past couple
years, I've gotten mixed recommendations from dentists about whether
or not to have the wisdom teeth out. More recently, one had said I
should, so I had planned to visit this nearby dentist to get another
opinion and maybe set up a date for getting one out. Little did I
know, that I would be walking out of his clinic 2 hours later, one
tooth shy of my previously full set. haha.
This guy, Dr. Kim, has had his practice for the last 25 years, and the
feeling in his office only reinforces that notion. I would guess that
little has changed (at least) in the past few years. The office was
pretty open, such that as I sat and waited, I could see him working on
either of the clients in his two chairs. Likewise, anyone who wanted
to see how he extracted my tooth merely had to glance over to get all
the action. Additionally, just the way tools were stored and
everything was handled gave me an interesting sense. This is not the
first time I've gone to a professional who seemed really, really laid
back and confident in his abilities and not quite as uptight as some
American counterparts that I've met in the past.
As I left, I received a prescription, so I went to fill it at a nearby
pharmacy. And just for the record, I'm pretty sure I went to the most
perfect pharmacy I've ever seen before. I was helped by a wised old
man who, perhaps, had been distributing these kinds of drugs for 2-3
times my lifespan. He definitely looked the part of head pharmacist,
and when he even told me consumption directions in English, I felt
like he had single-handedly made me a cake and iced it as well. It
was great. Since then, I really haven't experienced any discomfort or
swelling or any other side effects that many complain of. At first I
wholly attributed this to my exceptional healing abilities and pain
tolerance, but upon further consideration, I would guess that my
lovely drug medley probably contains some anti-inflammatory and/or
pain-killing components as well as antibiotics.
By this point, I have now been teaching my new classes for a bit over
3 months. As is to be expected, this time around is much, much better
than it was last year. The longer I teach here, the more confident I
become in my own abilities as well as my understanding of how the kids
learn well and/or what the learn well. I've received a great group of
students across the board, and I find that the only real difficulties
I encounter these days stem from some of my oldest students not being
willing to openly engage in conversations and practice the English
that they know. The kids, as always, are cute and loving and fun to
be around, and I think that we're making some better strides this year
than I did last year with similarly-aged students (even though I
started with those students halfway through the year). I'm excited to
see where these students end up and how much they're able to reproduce
by the end of our time together.
Last but not least, as I described in my previous email to you all, I
will be making a trip back to the States come the end of July. As I
said before, I will be in Indiana from July 31-August 4 and in GR from
August 6-10. Right in between there, I'd like to hit up Cedar Point
for a day of fantastic fun on Sunday, August 5th. So mark your
calendars and keep that time open for a sweet day. And, let me know
if you'll be around and want to spend some time together. I've heard
back from some, and soon (within the next few weeks), I'm gonna try to
nail down/lay out some more specific plans for my time back.
As always, I'd love to hear about your own lives and adventures, so
hit reply and jot down a note for me if you feel so inclined.
Lots of love to you all!
pfn,
bg
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Ben's Korean Adventures, Edition 19
Ok, I actually wrote this a little while back, but I wanted to do some better spacing, so I didn't send it until … now. It's got some things from the past monthish, and the last paragraph I just added now. Following the time gap shouldn't be too much work for you, I assume.
So in Korea, 2 New Years are celebrated -- the solar (that I've always been accustomed to recognizing) and the lunar. I didn't really experience any traditional Korean activities for this past Lunar New Year other than what happened in school. As with a few other Korean holidays, all the kids wore their colorful traditional clothing (the hanboks) to school, and we shared a meal together, and we were given gifts from the Director and the Owner of our schools. It was very interesting participating in this little ceremony with the students because all the kids went down to the gym, knelt before those two, and bowed to show respect. Those 2, in turn, wished a blessed year upon all of us and gave gifts. Beyond this small activity, the holiday did give us some time off from work, so 5 of us teachers went traveling. We went to a northern part of the country, specifically to a city called Chuncheon.
We went up to this are for a few reasons. First of all, Chuncheon is known for a specific kind of food: "dak galbi", which is basically a spicy chicken stir fry. The other teachers all really like this dish, and actually they ended up having it once a day for all 3 days we spent up there, although I, a first timer, must admit that it wasn't as magical for me. haha. I only ate it one of those times, since this was about the time that my cold began to kick in and my general well-being was in question over our stay there. Next, we wanted to use this city as a home base for our trips to other places in the area. Chuncheon itself houses a small island called Gang Won Do that we visited on our first full day there.
It just so happened that the ferry to the island docks right next to the hotel where we stayed, so on Sunday morning we got up and walked over to catch a ride to the island. This part of our trip turned into a bittersweet amusing time because as it turned out, Gang Won Do is a beautiful little island, but it's really meant for the summertime and not the winter. All around the island we saw sports spots (like a volleyball court or soccer field or pool) that really couldn't be used at the time when we went there. Even as we stepped off the ferry, we realized that something was a little odd. It looked like a completely deserted place. As it turned out, there were maybe a dozen and a half other people around the island, such that the return trip on the ferry was much more lively than it had been the first time coming over (when it was just 7 of us -- 5 teachers and 2 crew). So … stop one of our vacation was a little underwhelming … that's the way it goes sometimes, right? Right.
That same day we jumped in a bus and made our way to Hwacheon. Now, this for this stop, we had done a little more research collectively and had a better idea of what to expect. Hwacheon is home to a huge winter festival during that time of the year with all sorts of wintery activities and displays. It's supposed to be one of the top 3 festivals in all of Korea, so it's a big deal. The area has a large river that completely freezes over, such that on this long stretch of frozen water people can ice fish in one area and use ATVs in another and have some sweet sledding in yet another spot. As we went along this river, there were easily 8-12 distinct sections of the ice that we used for varying activities. I had never really thought about all the things one could do on the ice before, and each one seemed pretty cool. I, myself, only went sledding on one part, and it was a blast.
Because the ice fishing remains at the forefront, we saw lots of fish-related artwork around the city. There was one spot where, apparently, students or others had made papier-mâché fish and all these were lined up on a fence with awards attached. Nearby rested other, much large fish of a similar sort, and perhaps the most impressive of these fish displays, didn't really become so interesting until evening set in. Along one stretch of street, essentially a fish net had been strung up, and up and down the net were tons of small fish and other sea creatures that had been caught. As the sun set, this net was lit up with strands and strands of lights. It was pretty gorgeous.
2 other ares of the city really caught my attention. In one outdoor part, people had made huge snow sculptures. Most of them had some connection to a popular figure or movie (like Shrek or Pororo), but a few were just other things (like a house). All were really big and really sweet. In another part of the city, and this was my favorite thing by far, we got to see an indoor ice sculpture area. It was wicked sweet. This building was basically a huge freezer to keep all the sculptures cold, and it was just so impressive. A few of the sculptures were intended for human interaction (like a big bus or another car in either of which one or a few people could sit and pose), while others were meant just to amaze (like a giant ship or building model). Within this area, I had two favorite sculptures. The first one was just a big ice slide. haha. I used one of the gunny sacks provided and surfed down … almost wiping out at the bottom. Ah … it was great. The second was a little more intense and intricate. At one end of a room, you could see just a huge wall of ice that went to the ceiling, and toward each end, there was a single doorway leading into the ice wall. Behind the wall existed a little ice bar. unfortunately, no drinks were being served at this bar, but it pretty much looked like a small, functioning, literally hole-in-the-wall establishment complete with tables, booths, a bar and even a shelf behind the bar for bottles, and it was all made of ice. It was sweet.
Our final day, we made a trip to Naminara Island. This place was simply gorgeous. This island has become a big touristy spot, but it's still pretty sweet. We saw so many random/arbitrary things, and some of them made no sense at all, but here they were … right on this island. We found a small music museum. That was my first time going to a Korean museum, and I quickly realized something that I hadn't considered before; museums become a little less appealing when all the descriptions of things are in a language that I can't read. haha. I think that some of the names of things were in English, but otherwise I ended up just looking at a lot of old instruments and thinking, "Oh, that's kind of cool … even if I don't know what it's for." Naminara also had a bunch of ostriches running around. This was, perhaps, the most ridiculous thing that we encountered on the island. I haven't yet looked into how the ostriches came to be on the island, but I've decided that if I know, perhaps some of the mystery would dissolve away, and who wants that? I don't. haha. There was also a UNICEF village near the center of the island and a few other seemingly unexplainable things. I look forward to visiting this place again, though, when it's warmer.
So after our few days, we came back home. As I've mentioned a few times by now, it was during this trip that I caught the worst cold of my life. Whew. It was terrible, lasting just over 3 weeks, and it definitely gave me more sympathy for others who have long sicknesses. Especially in Hwacheon, it was frigid during our trip, and we just spent too much time outside. But it was a blast, and I realized during out first day up there, that that was my first time away from my apartment overnight since I'd come to Korea. Woohoo. Maybe I'll become a traveling fiend yet. Probably not, but maybe. haha.
That sickness really made me disinclined to do much of anything after work beyond coming home and crawling into bed, so there's been little to report since that Lunar New Year vacation save one thing -- our final English festivals at work. During the school year, Haba students put on 2 big performances for their parents. I came here only a little after the first one had happened, so I really didn't know what we were getting into, but since the beginning of January, we've been prepping hard and heavy for this festival. Now the activities involved are determined by the age group as well as the level of our class, so while some groups of students only sing, dance and recite lines, other have to do those things plus some more. In Edison Class, my students prepared a play (a watered down version of "The Wizard of Oz"), a song with dance and a short presentation on Community Helpers (ie- firefighters, mail carriers, etc). This took a lot of time and effort and energy, and it all came to fruition last Wednesday. My class did their performance, and it went pretty well. At this point we now have one more week together before they more on to a new class and new teachers.
[Insert about a week]
By now my classes have finished. Woo hoo! I've finished off one school year, even though I only started halfway through. This time around, I get to start from the beginning and see it through to the end. I'm pretty excited for it. Just this past Saturday, we had a large meeting with parents and some students and all the teachers. It was at this time that we learned of all our classes and co-teachers and things like that, and we were also presented to the attending parents and students. It was neat to see everyone in the gym at the same time because sometimes I forget that we do have a pretty large staff. I found out that … da da da … I'll be teaching students who are 7, 5 and 4 years old, thus I will have a lot of new material to learn and present to the students. Today and yesterday we spent time mapping out a lot of our textbooks for the next year, which is something that didn't happen last year. I think that planning on this macro scale will be a huge help … at least to hopefully alleviate some of the pressure during the end of the year crunch time. And one more thing that I'll sneak in here for those of you who diligently read all the way to the end, I did just talk with my director today about extending for a second year, so consider this a heads up; I'll be here for a little while yet.
Let's see. I think that's about it for now. I hope that you're keeping it real.
Much love to you all.
pfn,
bg
ps- if you want to see photos from the trip, visit here:
http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.697487103244.2140210.15300236&type=1&aft=710431442684&l=40b2c70a5b
if you want to see videos of the icy things in Hwacheon, visit here:
http://youtu.be/dgB65hmVZgU (Ice Tunnel)
http://youtu.be/tAG-sBJOR7s (Sledding)
http://youtu.be/13x4sST5kgM (Fish Net Street)
http://youtu.be/pTFyO0gW3ok (Ice Sliding)
if you want to see videos from the play, visit here:
http://youtu.be/07kf85JZjIo (Funny Intro)
http://youtu.be/ynt_alRchK0 (I am the Queen song … with mistake)
http://youtu.be/kqul2_N-5ZA (Don't Give Up You Can Do It song … with odd lyrics)